Do you find yourself hyper-focused, exhausted, and burned out from the never-ending quest for order and perfection? Does your work ethic or constant striving for improvement stress you out even though you mostly believe it is the right way of doing things? Do your friends and family feel neglected because of your workaholic tendencies? It may seem impossible to maintain high standards while tending to other important areas of your life, but it is possible to correct course. With specialized therapy for perfectionism you can move closer to a life that feels more balanced and fulfilling.
Holistic therapy approaches can help with self-limiting perfectionism, workaholism, difficulty with emotions, and improved interpersonal relationships by addressing lifestyle and core beliefs. Treatment is ideal for people who see themselves as driven, "Type A" personality, concerned with order, and have a tendency to come across as anxious or controlling. These personality traits may be adaptive in some areas, but often high achieving people seek therapy when their relationships suffer.
Many obsessive-compulsive people fall into habits of unhelpful perfectionism to meet their exceptionally high and detailed oriented standards. Thinking and working are often used to avoid social and emotional intimacy. Therapy may be helpful for high achievers who struggle with feelings and have difficulty separating their self-worth from productivity.
With a values-based lens, therapy can help you grow in self-awareness while committing to changing patterns of behavior that get in the way of your well-being and social connectedness. With help, you can learn to modify patterns that are no longer working for you or your loved ones.